COVID-19 has been extra tough on singles. You’re not just stuck at home alone. You also can’t change anything about it, because you can’t exactly go out and date to find that special someone.
Sadly, chances are your weeks have been filled with way too much masturbation and a few awkward virtual dates. It’s been tough. But finally, change is here my friend…
What Will I Learn:
- What Actually Happens When You Stop Having Sex
- Can Coronavirus Be Transmitted Sexually?
- Virtual Dating Is Here to Stay
- Don’t Be That Guy…
- Meeting Outside, In The Real World…
- That First Point of Contact…
- Sex. Glorious Sex!
Now lockdown measures are (slowly) lifted it’s time to plan your next move. It’s time to make sure you’re ready to take the post-lockdown dating scene by storm.
So to help you get back in the saddle I wrote down a few short pointers. Good luck out there!
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I know you can’t wait to go out and get busy, but do you actually know what not having sex does to your body?
And I mean, like, aside from the fact that your mind is thinking about it 24/7…
1 – “If you don’t use it, you lose it”
Unfortunately, that’s actually true for sex and our manhoods as well.
There’s this study, published in the American Journal of Medicine, which found that men who weren’t sexually active for a while were more likely to develop erectile dysfunction.
Luckily, it shows that you can easily fix this by making sure you still ejaculate enough. That’s right, all that masturbating was actually protecting your health!
The actual act of sex, though, is a special activity on its own. It requires some coordination and muscle power that you normally wouldn’t use.
See it as going to the gym after a few months of slacking off. No way you push the same weight as you used to. So keep that in mind as you prepare for post-lockdown sex.
2 – Your blood pressure and stress levels rise
You probably know that sex can help take some stress away, but do you know why?
Well, part of it is linked to blood pressure. A study in the Biological Psychology journal found that regular sex often equates to lower blood pressure.
They found that more sex improves your body’s physiological response to stress, which in turn helps keep your blood pressure low.
3 – Your immune system gets weaker
Yes, people have actually conducted studies on this and there seems to be evidence that regular sex and orgasms are good for your immune system.
People who had regular sex had a higher concentration of immunoglobulin A, an antibody that helps fight back against things like the common cold.
So sex helps boost your immunity!
But before you go out and spread the love, let’s move on to the next point first: coronavirus and sex…
Now I know you’re dying to get back out there and make up for all your time lost, but do remember that this thing is not over yet.
Even after lockdown is over you should still try to socially distance as much as possible; the virus is still there.
So don’t try and meet up with ten girls a day straight away. Instead, try and stay mindful about who you meet, and try to limit your dating efforts as much as possible.
When asking yourself whether COVID-19 can be transmitted sexually, just think of this:
I keep getting people asking me if the coronavirus can be spread through sexual contact even if there is no exchange of air or touching of faces. If you can get this accomplished from 6 feet away, congratulations to both of you
— Susanna L Harris, PhD (@SusannaLHarris) March 16, 2020
So even though you’ll want to go outside and find a sex buddy straight away, the reality is that you have to acknowledge that virtual dating is here to stay.
To try and limit contact with other people you have to be a lot more certain about a potential match before making any moves IRL.
That why virtual dating will still be a thing, even after lockdown.
So make sure you keep practicing your online dating skills, whether you like it or not.
Following my previous point, you need to make sure you don’t try to get someone to meet too soon.
It’s pushy, it’s annoying, and quite frankly it will just put her off.
Don’t believe me? Just have a look at this article in Cosmopolitan about 9 examples of pushy men.
Trust me, you don’t want to be that guy.
Respect the fact that you might be virtually dating for a while before meeting in person.
Ok, so you went through all the virtual dating, and after weeks of chatting, texting, and face timing, she’s agreed to meet in real life. Hooray!
But this also raises a new question: Where to meet?
It goes without saying that you should always follow government guidelines, so only consider meeting up if official rules allow you to do so.
If government’s given you a thumbs up it’s time to decide on the location.
Before lockdown, you’d go out for a dinner date or go see a movie together. Unfortunately, this is no longer the best plan for a date.
Instead, you want to pick a less populated space. Preferably, somewhere where you and your date can sit at least 6 feet away from others.
A great first suggestion is going for a walk outside in a park. You’ll be in the outside air, you can keep social distance from others, and you can even stay distanced from each other at first.
That way, you can have a chat in real life and already see if there’s some chemistry there, without even having to touch each other or get too close!
Yes, you’re almost there!
After months of lockdown and virtual dating and socially distanced walks you sense that it’s time for contact.
But, as with everything nowadays, this does pose some unexpected obstacles.
Normally you would go for the classic arm-over-the-shoulder move in the cinema, or the accidental touch of hands during dinner, but you can’t do those while staying distanced…
And even if you don’t care about distancing anymore, how do you know she’s ready for it? How to start?
I’m not gonna lie, it’s a tricky situation, I get it. But the way I see it your best bet is to just come right out and say it.
DON’T just fling your arm over and grab hers, as this might ruin all that you’ve been building up to. Instead, just tell her you would love to hold her hand right now. And then just hope she answers by grabbing yours!
Feeling bold? Then why not ask for your next meet up if it would be an idea to meet at one of your houses for dinner?
It means you don’t have to worry about socially distancing with other people; and it’s straight away clear that you don’t want to distance from her anymore…
Congratulations, you finally made it! You’ve established contact and you’re ready to go at it again.
Now if you’re still a bit scared to spread the virus, make sure that you both thoroughly shower before meeting up, and after sex as well, to further minimize the possibility of contamination.
Aside from that, it’s time to have fun. It’s been a long time, so better make it worth the wait. Make sure to order yourself some Male Extra in time before your date to get bigger, harder, and stronger erections to make it the best sex EVER.