Now, we all have our favorite sex positions, but we also have our favorite spots that pleasure and turn us on. These are places all over our bodies that are sexually sensitive. Sometimes with just the slightest touch, it can drive you crazy and curl your toes.
For men, it’s not just the lips, ears, neck and nipples that are erogenous. Far from it actually, the list can go on and on if you and your partner are open to doing a little exploration and experimenting.
Right guys, take the below as a guide on what an erogenous zone is, how to find them and what to do with them to get the orgasm of a lifetime, for you and your partner.
Erogenous zones: what are they?
An erogenous zone is a part of your body that has a heightened sensitivity and nerve endings that make you feel sexually aroused when they’re touched. While you may already both be happy with your sex life, there are most definitely other, often overlooked pleasure points that are worth exploring.
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For whatever reason, there has not been much research into why being stimulated in these places is so enjoyable. However, some of the reasoning for this could possibly be:
- These areas are so sensitive because the nerve endings or not often touched
- Many of these areas tend to be covered by clothing, this makes it more exciting to touch as they’re less accessible
- You or your partner find the particular body part attractive and like to touch it
Well, now we’ve delved a little more into what an erogenous zone is, read on and find out where they are.
Earlobes are usually up there as one of the top erogenous zones! This is due to the fact there are hundreds of nerve endings on the inside of our ears, making them super sensitive. Drive your partner crazy by nibbling on their ear lobe or swirling your tongue into their ear.
We all know how good a head massage feels, or even just our hair being played with and stroked. The reason it feels great and sometimes arousing is that our scalp is full of nerve endings, which makes it sensitive to massage.
Running your fingers gently over the scalp and tickling behind the ears is an excellent way to boost pleasure in the bedroom. Playing with your partner’s hair and gently stroking their scalp is also a great way to relax, post session.
The inner wrist is an obvious sensitive spot as it’s one of our pulse points. Take advantage of this and set the mood by gently caressing your partner’s inner wrist and tell them what’s going to happen next.
If you’re wanting to take it up a level, perhaps draw circles across their inner wrist with your lips and tongue.
Fingertips and palms
As you find that your relationship is progressing into something more, don’t get carried away. Remember that most dawns of intimacy began by holding hands.
The next time you’re in the mood for a steamy session with your partner, try doing something more than just simply holding their hand.
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As most of us know, chocolate is a natural aphrodisiac. So why not dip your partner’s fingers in chocolate and arouse your partner by sensually sucking it all off? If this is foreplay, imagine what shall occur during the main session.
The armpits are an incredibly ticklish part of the body for most people. However, it is also considered an important erogenous zone too. If this sounds like something for you, gently caress them with your fingers, smell or even kiss them.
You’ll discover the things that are enjoyable and pleasurable for both you and your partner, you never know, the armpit could be one of those places.
Now we all know why hickeys exist! This part of the body is an erogenous one for pretty much everyone. If you’re looking for the most sensitive part then you’re going to want the nape, which is the back of the neck.
Maybe build up on this by starting with kissing the sides of your partner’s neck and then moving to the nape. You could also use your fingers and tongue to stimulate the area.
Lower abdomen and navel
Another very sensitive area we have on our bodies is the lower abdomen. Not only this, but it is all the more interesting to explore as it is just above your dick. Combining this with several of the other erogenous zones and teasing your partner before the main event will only build arousal and passion.
For both us men and women too, the inner thigh is incredibly sensitive. As this is so close to our junk and scrotum especially, even the slightest touch can make you shiver.
Did you know we have something referred to as the gluteal fold; this is where the top of your tight meets your butt and is what is called a passion point. It’s possibly why some people like to be spanked.
Ask your partner and perhaps give it a try if that’s not something you’ve done before.
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The sacrum, is the small of your back. It is the triangular bone at the base of your spine, just above your hips. There are many sensitive nerves in this area that lead to your dick, so no doubt that’s arousing, right?
These next few are more for your stimulation than your partner’s but it’s all an education, isn’t it? Not only that, but your partner will likely experience pleasure themselves from this too!
The foreskin is a great erogenous zone, for those men out there who are uncircumsized. Whether it’s a hand job or oral pleasure, anything will work absolute wonders. To make it feel even better, try retracting back and forth!
The glans penis is the rounded head of your dick, it has over 4000 never endings. This makes it the most sensitive part of your junk.
Your partner can tease the area by licking or kissing. But to go all in, the head can be taken into their mouth and have their tongue swirled around it.
Scrotum and testicles
There is much to be said about having balls etc, but ironically the testicles are actually the most sensitive part of a man’s body. Here you’ll find dangling nerve endings waiting for attention.
For maximum pleasure, your partner could massage your balls whilst giving you a hand job. They can then gradually amp it up with some oral stimulation.
The prostate, also known as the P spot, is a walnut-sized gland that can be found around 2 inches inside the rectum.
Having this area stimulated can enable you to have really intense orgasms. Stimulation can be with a well lubricated finger or vibrator. Or otherwise, your prostate can also be stimulated by massaging your perineum. This is because your perineum nerve endings are connected to your prostate.
The previously mentioned perineum is an area of really sensitive skin that runs underneath the scrotum all the way to the anus.
If you’re masturbating, why not reach out and tease your perineum as you are about to ejaculate. You might be confused now, but believe me, you’ll thank us later.
Ready to explore?
With the tips above you’ll be well on your way to upping your foreplay game, exploring the erogenous zones and creating some serious passion for the main event!
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